📅 2026 Update: Recent Changes in New Jersey's Same-Sex Marriage Laws

Since the original article was published, there have been no significant legislative changes to same-sex marriage laws in New Jersey from 2024 to 2026. The core requirements and processes remain intact, ensuring that same-sex couples continue to enjoy the same rights as opposite-sex couples in marriage and civil unions. The details of marrying in New Jersey are covered further down this page.

🏛️ Current Fees and Costs

The fees for marriage and civil union licenses in New Jersey remain the same. Each application requires a $28 fee. This fee covers both marriage and civil union license applications, making it straightforward for couples planning to tie the knot or establish a civil union.

📄 Forms and Steps

The application process for a marriage or civil union license has not changed. Couples must:

  • Complete the marriage or civil union license application form.
  • Sign the application only in front of the issuing authority.
  • Submit the application to the Local Registrar in their municipality.
  • Wait a 72-hour period before the license is issued.

⏳ Processing Times

Processing times for marriage licenses continue to be efficient. For in-person requests, licenses are typically processed within 2 hours at the Office of Vital Statistics and Registry. Mail orders take 2-4 weeks, while online orders may take 6-8 weeks due to additional processing times.

📅 Validity and Deadlines

Both marriage and civil union licenses remain valid for six months from the acceptance date. If the license expires, a new application must be submitted, along with another $28 fee. The Registrar may grant an extension for up to one year if needed.

📌 Key Points Summary

  • 🚫 No significant changes to same-sex marriage laws since 2024.
  • 💵 Marriage and civil union application fees are $28.
  • 📄 Application forms must be signed in front of an authority.
  • ⏳ In-person processing typically takes 2 hours.
  • 📅 Licenses valid for six months, with possible extensions.

💡 Tips for Navigating Marriage and Civil Unions in New Jersey

Review your specific situation with your attorney to ensure you understand all requirements and processes.

📝 Know Your Eligibility

Both parties must be at least 18 years old and not involved in another civil union or marriage. Make sure you meet these requirements before applying for a license.

🏙️ Choose the Right Municipality

Apply for your marriage or civil union license in the New Jersey municipality where either party resides. If neither is a resident, apply in the municipality where the ceremony will occur.

⏳ Plan for the Waiting Period

After submitting your application, remember that there is a 72-hour waiting period before the license is issued. Plan your ceremony accordingly to avoid any delays.

💳 Prepare for Fees

Each application costs $28, so be ready to pay this fee when you submit your application. This fee applies whether you are applying for a marriage or civil union license.

🗂️ Keep Documents Handy

Ensure you have all necessary documents when applying. This may include identification and proof of residency, which can help streamline the application process.

❓ Frequently Asked Questions

🤔 What is the process for updating a birth certificate in New Jersey?

To update your name or gender marker, you must fill out the appropriate form and mail it to the NJ Department of Health's Office of Vital Statistics and Registry, along with the processing fee.

💍 How long is a marriage license valid in New Jersey?

A marriage license in New Jersey is valid for six months from the date it is accepted. If not used within this time frame, a new application is required.

📅 Can I apply for a marriage license online?

Yes, you can apply for a marriage license online, but the standard processing time is 6-8 weeks. Additional processing fees may apply for expedited services.

🏳️‍🌈 Are same-sex marriages treated differently than opposite-sex marriages in New Jersey?

No, same-sex marriages are treated the same as opposite-sex marriages under New Jersey law. Both have the same rights and responsibilities.

📜 What documentation is required to apply for a marriage or civil union license?

You will need to present identification and proof of residency when applying for either a marriage or civil union license. Specific documents may vary by municipality.

🏙️ Where can I get assistance with civil union laws?

The New Jersey Civil Service Commission offers information on civil union laws and protections against discrimination based on civil union status.

⚖️ Recent Cases Related to Marriage Laws

Recent court rulings have continued to shape the landscape of marriage and civil union laws in New Jersey. These cases often involve the rights of same-sex couples and their access to marriage benefits.

For more recent rulings, feel free to browse more rulings on the news page.

End of October 2026 Update





While the fight for gay marriage to be recognized by every state and the federal government is a long way from over, legal New Jersey gay marriages have a chance of being recognized. Currently, New Jersey marriages do not include any gay couples but the state does recognize same-sex unions. 


Gay Marriage Laws in New Jersey

Same-sex unions give gay couple some of the same state rights that heterosexual New Jersey marriages get. The problem is that there are over 1,000 rights regarding marriage that only the federal government recognizes. So between New Jersey gays having to settle for civil-unions and the federal government not giving them any of the rights that New Jersey marriages benefit from, a fight will continue to win the battle for legal same-sex New Jersey marriages. 


A ban on New Jersey gay marriage is one of those old-school type of laws that may someday seem ridiculous much like segregation. As of now, New Jersey is caught in the middle. While it is not one of the 6 U.S states that recognizes gay marriage, it does offer most the benefits of New Jersey marriages. For many, religion gets in the way of passing a bill that would allow for New Jersey gay marriage. The excuse that "it just is not right" does not fly with supporters of New Jersey gay marriage, which extends beyond the gay community.


    One of the main problems with New Jersey not accepting same-sex marriages is that employers do not recognize civil unions. Gay couples feel they deserve the same health benefits and other benefits that the spouses of different sex marriages enjoy. 


Former Governor Corzine has fought for same-sex couples and has said he would support any bill that was ever passed on to his desk that legalized New Jersey gay marriage. Companies in New Jersey such as UPS claim their contract agreement does not support civil unions when it comes to employee spousal benefits so there is nothing that can be done.


    Unfortunately up to this point, New Jersey gay marriage cases have not been so successful in court. In January of 2010 a bill was shot down by the New Jersey judicial committee that would have made New Jersey marriage laws fair and equal regardless of whether they were same-sex marriages or not. Garden State Equality and Lambda Legal were representing those fighting for equal right in the case and even though they did not win that day they vowed to return to court. It is a fight that will never end because both sides feel they are in the right.